Are you sure you want to call him? Why did you tell him to stop calling you? Have those issues been resolved? Be honest!!!! If you are just calling because your ego is bruised and you feel sheepish because he actually listened to you and stopped calling then NO you should not call him. If you want men to take you seriously and give you the respect you deserve, you need to stick to the things you say. Don’t play games with people. If you told him to stop calling you there was probably a good reason behind it. Unless the circumstances have changed significantly for the better you should NOT call him.
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hi my ex and i hve been going out for 9mths now and were pretty serious. it was a long distance rlsp and i had gone over to his country to spend a couple of wks with him for xmas..but conflicts started to arise and both of us felt our image we created of each other was less than expected. i guess when u spnd time together..conflicts r bound to happen but for my ex..he gottoo jumpy abt it..
i took whatever measures i could on returning on my coyntry to reverse the process..
i was the sweetest person i cud be to him..coz by n by i realised he started to distant himself ( i realised in tht trip hes very sensitive and gets his guard up v v fast)
but while i was rectifying mistakes..his resentment was just starting to build.. til february i coudlnt take it anymore and asked him whts wrong n he sed maybe we shud take a break..n still keep intoch...
i was so hurt and said no!! thts like him havin his cake n eating it too..
i sed lets breakup..he didnt want tit..he sed hed gt back to me atert hinking about it...
2days passed before he tried to contact me again..he was thinking (he texted) by then i had boiled over...i didnt wanna be with the guy who didnt know wht he wanted.
i emailed him saying i want to breakup.coz i cant take it htt im gviing out so much luv n was getting none in retuen..felt inadequate and discouraged. n o make it less painful i ddnt want any contatc with each other n if later in life things r meant to be it wil..
he replied saying its gonna b v v tough for him not to do so but wil respect my decison. n tht hs been a wreck since the talk we had. no eat no sleep. and 'appealed" to me to not think n pick up the fon n call him anytume i feel like it.
after a wk he contacts me on my blackberry syaing he sees im sick-
now since i want him back icant totally ignore him. i sed yes have a bd cold n asked hw he was doing. he sed "Surviving as the day go by..ive realised hwo monotonous my life can be" lalalaa small talk. n hugn up.
no contact since.
wht do i do!!
pls help!
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