Short Answer: Yes.
However, there was obviously a reason why you broke up in the first place. If those reasons have not been resolved you really need to be honest with yourself about whether or not you want to rekindle your relationship with this person. Trust your gut. If it is really telling you that you can let bygones be bygones or make the changes necessary to have a healthy relationship then proceed with caution.
You need to remember that you only have control over YOUR wants, needs, and actions. He may not be ready to take you back so prepare yourself for this. If you really want him and believe he is worth waiting for then be loving and kind every time you make contact. You must assure him that you come bearing love. Don’t try to get him back if you secretly wish to hurt him the way he hurt you or if you’re harboring some deep seeded resentments etc. You can never find happiness out of someone else’s heartache. Make sure that your intentions are based on love. True love does not need control. If you really want him back and feel that you love him, it shouldn’t matter if he is not ready when you are.
I go into greater detail about this subject in my audio book “Tiffany Epiphany, The Modern Woman’s Guide to Marriage.” Download it into your iPod here.
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